Forgiveness only takes one person and is someone giving up their desire to punish someone else. It is letting go of resentment and anger, and maybe even getting to a place where we can wish the offender well. Forgiveness doesn't require the other person to change, or even to feel sorry. It also doesn't mean that you have to spend any time with the person you forgive, or allow them to do anything to you that will require more forgiveness. Forgiveness is required of all who believe in Christ. We are to forgive all who offend us in any way.
Reconciliation takes two people. It might be restoring friendship or harmony in a relationship. Working out difference. Coming to an agreement. Reconciliation is not required. Why? Reconciliation requires two people and each person has agency. It wouldn't be fair to require reconciliation because that would make our salvation dependent on someone besides us who may not desire to reconcile or change. Reconciliation is a good thing if both people are equally dedicated to being reconciled!
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