Monday, December 20, 2021

Miracles Among The Hardships


The First Christmas
Used by permission from Churchofjesuschrist.org

 Mary, barely more than a child herself, was asked to carry the Son of God.  This she agreed to without hesitation, even though the road before her would be hard, and sometimes lonely.

Joseph, a kind and gentle man, was visited by an angel and asked to take Mary to wife, even though she carried a child that was not His.  He would be the step father of God’s only Begotten Son!  What a gift!  And yet, what a burden!  Surely Joseph wondered if he was really up to the task!  


Mary’s cousin Elizabeth, older and past the time when children could come to her without a miracle, received the miracle she and Zacharia had hoped for.  She too would bear a child and he would have the Holy Ghost from birth.  Indeed, John knew, even in the womb, when he was in the presence of the Son of God (months before Jesus would be born – or even John himself!)


Joseph and Mary, young, but nervous, traveled to Bethlehem where Mary would give birth to her firstborn child without the help of her mother, or any known relatives.  She had Joseph, and no doubt was grateful that he was there in the lowly stable with her.  Surely angels hovered nearby filled with wonder and excitement!


Shepherds, sitting in a field keeping watch over their flock were, perhaps, contemplating when the Savior would come.  Imagine their surprise to see and hear not just one angel, but a whole heavenly host who were singing, and praising God!  They must have been torn between wanting to bow down with their faces to the ground and wanting to look up and take in the incredible scene before them!


These are strange and incredible things, and there were more!  John, feeling unworthy, baptizing his cousin in the river Jordan and hearing Heavenly Father’s voice.  The Son of God, the great Creator, allowing people to spit on Him, taunt Him, beat Him, and in the end to nail him to the cross.  And then the resurrection itself!  Joy after such devastation!


And now?  Are there still strange and incredible things?  Yes!  There are the miracles of new birth.  Of springtime after a frozen winter.  There are answered prayers, and strength for the weak.  There is compassion for the weary, and hope for the hopeless.  


There are always miracles if we just have eyes to see.  If we can let go of our aches and hurts. Our sorrows and disappointments.  Our weaknesses and sin.  If we can take them, and hand them to the child born in a stable, who grew from grace to grace until He knew how to give us grace when we were broken, and love when we felt unlovable. 


We may not follow a star to Christ, but we can follow a prophet, and learn of Christ through His words and actions, shared with us by those who loved Him in life, and death.  Loved so much that they died themselves rather than deny His power.  We can look for the miracles of kindness, and generosity, and smiles, and compassion.  We can look for the miracles of peaceful moments, and the beauty of creation.


During this Christmas Season, I hope all of us will have eyes to see the miracles among the hardships.  The sacrifices in the midst of tragedy.  I also hope that we will reach out with love, kindness, and understanding so that we can be the miracle in someone’s Christmas season.


(I wrote this for my parents but thought I would share it with you too!)

Monday, December 6, 2021

Welcome Home!

This is Brigham worn out after Thanksgiving.  The only thing this picture has to do with this post is that we welcome him, and his parents, into our home any time!

While waiting for our house to be built I found myself thinking a lot about hospitality.  We used to enjoy inviting people over to our house in Payson for Family Home Evening puppet shows and I liked it back in the really old days when we could have all of my brothers and sisters and their families come for Thanksgiving!  I feel that our blessings are to be shared and enjoyed with others as much as possible.    

The definition of hospitality is:  "the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests, visitors and strangers."(from the online dictionary)  I am going to use Home and Hospitality as my words of the coming year.  I added home because I feel like the family attached to the home should be received in a friendly and generous fashion too.  I don't particularly want to be totally in charge of entertaining anyone, but I do want to do better at spending time with family doing things we can all enjoy.  I am still working on subsections of the goal for each month.  There are so many good things to learn about and practice that relate to hospitality that it's hard to choose!

While waiting for our house to be built I read books on hospitality.  I really enjoyed one by Myquillyn Smith called Welcome Home. I wrote down quotes from her book that I thought would be helpful in my quest to become more hospitable.  One of my favorites is, "When I find myself focusing on me, my house, my outfit, or my stuff, it's a red flag."  Hospitality is about loving other people -- not about me!  Some of my favorite people to visit are the ones who welcome me in like family and don't apologize over some mess -- either real or imagined!  

As I learn I hope to share with you my successes and failures, and the joy of learning to love better!

Saturday, December 4, 2021

Stalling

This really isn't a recent picture of our new home. 
I'd better stop stalling and take one!

 I have been stalling.  One answer to prayer I received was that I need to learn, to write, and to spend time playing and creating music.  Those are happy answers, but I am good at stalling.  I will write after I move, or I will write once we are settled, or there is ALWAYS the idea that I will write when I have something that feels a little more brilliant to say!  I will write when I'm not tired, or I don't have a headache, or when every little circumstance is perfect for writing.  But all of those things really add up to me not writing anything at all!

So, here I am not stalling.  Trying to honor the answer I received from the loving, wise, amazing creator who is Father of us all.  Even if I am not writing I am always thinking, and often studying or learning about something.  I have been thinking a lot about hospitality.  We moved into our beautiful, friendly blue house.  We are surrounded by the beauty of God's creations every single day, and I want to share the love evident in those creations with others.  I am planning to have hospitality as my word of the year, and am enjoying coming up with the best ways to implement that!

I also want to keep from forgetting all of the other words I have worked on -- including "Gratitude".  I am so grateful for my family and all of my wonderful friends and for the sweet grand baby that joined our family in October.  What a gift!

I do not want Heavenly Father to stall in answering prayers, or sending blessings, so I had better work on not stalling to do what He has told me to do!

Smiley Brigham

Not the picture hanging over the fireplace, but still one of my favorites!